For African Americans, especially the girl child.. dealing with America is like being in a relationship with a mean, violent person. The way most African American females see the African American's experience with America is through lens that have been tainted with violence and splattered with blood. Utterly ridden with violence, monstrosity and hatred. The African Americans' relationship with America is much like the worst scenario one can conjure: a very bad case of domestic violence. America says: "It's your fault why I hate you so much. If you were so (fill in the blank) I'd feel some remorse about what I did to you. How can one honestly say when the social economic conditions created by slavery, Jim Crow and systematic racism has locked the African American into a life which there's no way out. America is much like an abusive husband who will fight and defend his wife ou...